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Making Peace with What Is and What Isn’t
Most of us, at some point, find ourselves wondering if we’ll ever truly know what it feels like to be deeply loved, not just in words or routine, but in that mutual, steady, deep sense of knowing you are cherished and loved in a way that feels like home.
Tamara Bernal
Oct 146 min read


Time to Chat?A Reflection on Friendship, Listening, and Longing to Be Heard
Time to Chat? Boiling water Soak the beans Smell the coffee Feel the steam Quiet morning Rain and clouds Text a friend Time to chat? Text...
Tamara Bernal
May 32 min read


Anniversaries Can Be Sacred Even When the Marriage Wasn't
Today is my 21st wedding anniversary. There’s no card. No flowers. No phone call. No celebration. There hasn’t been for a long time....
Tamara Bernal
Apr 232 min read


The Anniversary of What Should’ve Been and What it Was Not
Today marks what would’ve been my 21st wedding anniversary. But we’ve been separated for over two years now, and the legal end is in...
Tamara Bernal
Apr 234 min read
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